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		<title>Why You Should Have Sex on a Daily Basis</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Mar 2011 01:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Why You Should Have Sex on a Daily Basis

Are you in a relationship?  If you are, are you pleased with the frequency of intimacy?  If you would like to be more sexually active with your partner, you will want to set a goal for yourself.  Share that]]></description>
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<p>Are you in a relationship?  If you are, are you pleased with the frequency of intimacy?  If you would like to be more sexually active with your partner, you will want to set a goal for yourself.  Share that goal with your partner.  The two of you can make a game out of trying to achieve.  To get you started, a great goal to have is having sex on a daily basis.</p>
<p>Being intimate on a daily basis?  Right now, you are either thinking two things.  First, you may be thinking ?we already do that!?  If so, good for you.  You officially have a happy and healthy sex life.  On the other, you may be thinking ?no way, there is no time.?  If that is the case, know it isn?t true.  You may be surprised just how many couples out there have sexual relations on a daily basis.  It is also important to note that these couples often have the healthiest and happiest relationships of all.</p>
<p>As for why you should set the goal of being intimate on a daily basis, you will find that dong so is healthy for your relationship.  As previously stated, couples who have intimacy on a daily basis often have the healthiest relationships. When in a serious relationship, intimacy is important.  Yes, your relationship should not be based on sex, but it is a huge component of it.  Connecting intimately shows your partner that you truly love them.  So why not take steps to express your love everyday?</p>
<p>Your chances of experimenting are also likely to increase when you have sexual relations on a daily basis.  Why?  Because if you have sex daily, you may honestly get bored with that you are doing.  However, instead of opting to reduce the frequency of intimacy, many couples decide to experiment instead.  This is something that may provide you with excitement or a source of motivation.  This experimentation may involve the use of sex toys, pornographic videos, new positions, and role playing.</p>
<p>Sex is also good for your health.  That is just another one of the many reasons why you may want to set a daily goal.  Those who have healthy sex lives are less likely to suffer from stress and depression.  This may improve your relationship by limiting the amount of disagreements you and your partner have.  It is also important to note that sex burns calories.  What could be better than working to lose weight while being adventurous with the man or woman you love?</p>
<p>The above mentioned information was designed for men and women who are in exclusive relationships, such as a marriage.  If you are not involved with anyone right now, daily sex may not be a wise idea for you.  This is because you may end up with a different partner each and every night.  A s fun and as exciting as this may sound, you may end up putting your health at risk.  Remember that your risk of developing a sexually transmitted disease increases with each additional sex partner you have.</p>
<p>In conclusion, having sex on a daily basis is a good idea.  If you aren?t already having daily sex, it may be a wise idea to set the goal.  You may be surprised just how much daily, intense intimacy can help to improve your relationship.</p>
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		<title>When Professional Help Is Needed to Help You Have a Better Sex Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 01:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[When Professional Help Is Needed to Help You Have a Better Sex Life

Are you married?  If you are, are you currently satisfied with the level and amount of intimacy that you receive?  If you are not, you may want to take action right away.  Althoug]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When Professional Help Is Needed to Help You Have a Better Sex Life</p>
<p>Are you married?  If you are, are you currently satisfied with the level and amount of intimacy that you receive?  If you are not, you may want to take action right away.  Although a marriage should not be built on sex, it is still an important component.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, when it comes to intimacy and not receiving enough of it, there are many husbands and wives who automatically think that their marriage is over.  Why?   Because many believe that a poor level of intimacy is the sign of boredom or the lack of love.  Yes, this can be true in some cases, but only a small number of cases.</p>
<p>What you need to realize about intimacy is that there are a number of reasons why problems occur.  Just because your husband or wife does not want to be intimate with you or if they act like they want to get through the whole experience as quickly as possible, it does not mean that there is something wrong with you.  There may be other issues to blame, other issues that may require professional help.</p>
<p>Some men and women just have low sex drives.  They may have always been this way or their need may have decreased with age.  In these types of situations, professional help is advised.  Some men and women can try their hardest, but they still aren?t interested in getting intimate with their spouses, no matter how much they do love and cherish them.</p>
<p>If you suspect that you or your partner has a decreased sex drive, medical attention is advised.  It is important to know that there are many solutions to the problem.  Both men and women can use medication to revive their sexual wants and needs.  Speaking of medication, did you also know that medication can be to blame?  Some prescription medications have side effects that include a decreased sex drive.</p>
<p>If there is no physical or emotional reason for your lack of intimacy, such as depression or a low sex drive, professional help is still advised.  This is particularly true if you are married.  Marriages should be worth saving.  You and your spouse are encouraged to attend marriage counseling together.  After a close examination, you may find a ton of other reasons why your intimacy isn?t what it should be.  These additional reasons may include being concerned with work or being concerned with money.  A marriage counselor can help you work through those concerns, which may help to improve the level and amount of intimacy that you receive at home.</p>
<p>Despite the fact that there are times when professional help is needed to improve intimacy in a marriage, there are many individuals and couples who opt not to seek professional help.  One of the most common reasons for doing so is embarrassment.  If you are on the one who is embarrassed, it is important to remember that intimacy problems are actually very common in a marriage, especially a long-term marriage.  Do not be afraid to seek professional help.</p>
<p>As a recap, if you are unsatisfied with the current level of intimacy that you are receiving in your marriage, professional help may be needed.  There may be an underlying issue that needs to be discussed or treated.  Don?t let your fear of embarrassment hold back you or your relationship.</p>
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		<title>Unhappy In Bed?  Should You Talk to Your Partner?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 22:44:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Unhappy In Bed?  Should You Talk to Your Partner?

Are you in a relationship?  If you are, are you currently happy with your sex life or the level of intimacy that you and your partner share?  If not, you may be unsure as to how to proceed.  You ma]]></description>
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<p>Are you in a relationship?  If you are, are you currently happy with your sex life or the level of intimacy that you and your partner share?  If not, you may be unsure as to how to proceed.  You may be interested in talking to your partner, but you may also be nervous and fearful at the same time.</p>
<p>So, is it a good idea to let your partner know that you are unhappy in bed?  Of course it is.  A dull or boring sex life can have a negative impact on a relationship.  It is also important to note that an open line of communication is an important component of a happy and healthy relationship, both in the physical and emotional sense.  If you cannot talk to your partner about sex, how do you honestly expect your relationship to continue on?</p>
<p>As it was previously stated, communication is key to a successful relationship and not just in the bedroom.  If you can talk to your partner about sex, you can likely talk to them about anything.  This means that your relationship is less likely to suffer from a lack of communication or poor communication.  This may translate into less arguments and more time in the bedroom.</p>
<p>Another reason why you should talk to your partner if you are currently unhappy with the intimacy received is because it will improve.  The last thing that your partner wants to hear is that they aren?t providing you with enough pleasure and excitement.  As soon as your wants, needs, and desires are openly discussed, your intimacy levels may skyrocket.  It is also important to note that you will eventually end up being more satisfied in bed.</p>
<p>Another reason why all intimacy problems should be discussed with your partner is because they too can be satisfied more.  When you do bring about the discussion of sex but sure not to just focus on your wants, needs and desires.  Ask your partner for input as well.  They may have their own suggestions.  To have a happy and healthy relationship, as well as sex life, both of you need to be satisfied.  Pleasure should not be one sided only.</p>
<p>Although there are a number of pros and cons to talking about your unhappiness in bed with your partner, there are also a number of downsides to doing so as well.  One of those being difficulty.  For many men and women, the subject of sex can be discomforting to talk about.  Add in the fact that you are expressing displeasure or the need for change and an uncomfortable situation may ensure.</p>
<p>It is also important to note that talking about your unhappiness in bed can also have an adverse, negative effect on your relationship.  Yes, it is important to have an open line of communication in any serious relationship, but there are some things that people just do not want to hear.  Do not be surprised if your partner gets defensive when talking to you.  In fact, you may want to prepare for it.  It is natural for both men and women to get defensive when they are essentially being told that their sex isn?t good enough and needs improvement.</p>
<p>If you do decide to talk to your partner about improving your intimacy in the bedroom, just be sure to use caution and your best judgment.  Do not criticize your partner and try to not make them feel inadequate.  Gently approaching the situation has a number of benefits, including the elimination of hurt feelings.  It also better allows you to have an open, honest, and mature discussion.</p>
<p>As a reminder, there are a number of pros and cons to talking to your partner about your unhappiness with your intimacy.  With that being, the end result is often well worth the discussion.  Just remember to be careful about your approach, as how you start the conversation and what you say during it may have a significant impact on the outcome.</p>
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		<title>Tips for Buying Sex Toys and Accessories</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2011 16:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Tips for Buying Sex Toys and Accessories

Are you looking for an easy way to spice up your sex life with your spouse?  If you are, you should know that experimenting in the bedroom has been successful for many couples, just like you.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tips for Buying Sex Toys and Accessories</p>
<p>Are you looking for an easy way to spice up your sex life with your spouse?  If you are, you should know that experimenting in the bedroom has been successful for many couples, just like you.</p>
<p>As nice as it is to know that experimenting in the bedroom may help to revive the romance in your relationship and improve your satisfaction in the bedroom, you may be curious about the buying process.  This is because one of the first ways that married couples experiment in the bedroom is with the use of sex toys and other similar accessories.</p>
<p>If this is the first time that you are looking to purchase sex toys and other similar accessories, you may be a little bit nervous about doing so.  In fact, you may be downright fearful of the whole process.  You are, please continue reading on, as some helpful buying tips are covered below.</p>
<p>First, it is important to know that sex toys and other similar accessories come in a number of different formats. You can purchase pleasure enhancing toys, role playing toys, massage oils and so forth.  This is important to know as it may eliminate some of the fear associated with going into a sex toy store and buying something that will bring attention to yourself, like a huge blowup doll.</p>
<p>Speaking of bringing attention to yourself, it is important to know that the use of sex toys in intimacy is increasing in popularity.  Many individuals are finding them to be a great new way to bring passion and excitement into the bedroom.  Although you might not know it, there is a good chance that your friends and even some of your relatives use these popular toys and accessories.  Knowing that you are not alone may help to make the buying process a lot easier.</p>
<p>If you live near a large city or town, you should have multiple sex toy and accessory shops for you to choose from.  With that said, it you would prefer to shop online, you can do that as well.  For shopping online, perform a standard internet search the type of items or accessories you are looking for.  Choose a website that has a large selection of sex toys and similar accessories available for sale, a website that has good prices, and one that looks reputable.</p>
<p>Many couples prefer shopping online for sex toys, as it does tend to limit the embarrassment.  The only thing is that you need to be careful with who you shop with.  You will want to do business with a company that is discrete.  Make sure your package doesn?t arrive with a phrase like ?We Sell Sex Toys,? plastered around the box.  Also, what will appear on your credit card or bank statements?  This may be a concern of yours if you don?t want what seems like the whole world knowing what you do in your private life.</p>
<p>As a reminder, as fearful as you may be of walking into a sex store for the first time or as worried you may be having a red box that screams sexual contents sitting on your doorstep, don?t worry.  Remember that a lot of couples use sex toys as a way to bring fun and excitement into the bedroom.  If you are looking to spice up your sex life, visit a local store with your spouse or browse the internet together.  This alone may help to get you in the mood.</p>
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		<title>The Pros and Cons of Experimenting in the Bedroom</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2011 22:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Pros and Cons of Experimenting in the Bedroom

Are you unhappy with your sex life right now?  If you are, you may have thought of ending your relationship.  Of course, it is your decision to do so, but did you know that you can use experimentat]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Pros and Cons of Experimenting in the Bedroom</p>
<p>Are you unhappy with your sex life right now?  If you are, you may have thought of ending your relationship.  Of course, it is your decision to do so, but did you know that you can use experimentation as a way to improve your sex life?  You can.  Experimenting in the bedroom has proven successful for many couples.</p>
<p>As nice as it is to hear that experimentation in the bedroom can help to improve your sex life, you may be a little bit nervous about the whole process.  After all, you do have to get your partner to agree.  In fact, this is where the discomfort comes in.  Why?  Because there are a number of pros and cons to experimenting the in the bedroom.</p>
<p>One of many pros or plus sides to experimenting in the bedroom is that you get a change.<br />
A change can always do you good.  In fact, in many relationships, a change is vital to is survival.  If your sexual life feels more like a chore or a requirement, it is important that you take action right away, before it ends up being too late.</p>
<p>Another pro or plus side to experimenting in the bedroom is the improvement that your sex life can see.  As previously stated, a change does most relationships good.  Trying new things in the bedroom can bring new blood, romance, and excitement into your relationship.  You may find yourself being happier, as well as more pleased after being intimate with your partner.</p>
<p>The options that you have are another one of the many reasons why experimenting in the bedroom is a good idea.  Unfortunately, when many men and women think of experimenting in the bedroom, kinky things often come to mind, such as an additional partner.  Of course, you can go this way if you would like, but you don?t have to.  Experimenting in the bedroom can be something as simple as changing positions or role playing.  Additional options involve dressing up in sexy costumes, the use of sex toys, and the use of romantic or pornographic films.</p>
<p>Although there are a number or pros or plus sides to experimenting in the bedroom it is also important to remember that there are cons or downsides to doing so as well.  One of those is approaching your partner with the subject.  If you are in a mature relationship, you should be able to openly discuss sex with your partner.  With that said, experimenting in the bedroom is a topic that can be touchy.  Your partner may automatically think that they aren?t providing you with enough pleasure, like what they have to give just isn?t good enough.  With that said, be sure to proceed with caution.  Offer up a few suggestions, but let your partner toss in a few of his or her own ideas.</p>
<p>Another one of the many cons or downsides to experimenting in the bedroom is the fact that your partner may not be up the change.  They may believe that your sex life is just fine the way that it is.  While it is important to not be too pushy, you also want to get your point across. Your partner needs to realize that a healthy relationship involves two people, not just one.  If your partner is offended with your suggestions, give them time.  As previously stated, many men and women believe that experimentation is needed because they aren?t good enough in the bedroom.  Even if that wasn?t the point you were trying to make, still give your partner time to come around.</p>
<p>As recap, there both a number of pros and cons to experimenting in the bedroom.  So what should you do?  Your actions should all depend on your wants and needs.  Your relationship will only get worse if you are not happy, physically or emotionally.  Talk to your partner about experimenting in the bedroom.  You may be surprised just how acceptable they are of your suggestion.</p>
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		<title>Improving Your Sex Life:  How to Be Spontaneous</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2011 21:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Improving Your Sex Life:  How to Be Spontaneous

Are you looking to improve your sex life?  If you are, you may have already heard that being spontaneous is advised.  Spontaneity often leads it an increase in interest and an increase in satisfactio]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Improving Your Sex Life:  How to Be Spontaneous</p>
<p>Are you looking to improve your sex life?  If you are, you may have already heard that being spontaneous is advised.  Spontaneity often leads it an increase in interest and an increase in satisfaction, in terms of intimacy.  Unfortunately, some men and women find being spontaneous a lot easier said than done.  If you are one of those individuals, please continue reading on for some helpful tips.</p>
<p>One of the many ways that you can be spontaneous is by not waiting for your partner to initiate sex.  Unfortunately, many women wait for their husbands or boyfriends to get sex started.  Why wait?  You shouldn?t.  In fact, did you know that your partner may be hoping that you start showing more interest in being intimate with them?  What better way to do so than to initiate sex yourself?</p>
<p>A creative way to be spontaneous, where sex and intimacy is concerned, is by using text messages.  If you and your partner have and use cell phones, send sexy and seductive text messages to them.  In addition to text messages, you can also call your partner or send love notes with them when they walk out the door.</p>
<p>As previously stated, there are some individuals who find it difficult to be spontaneous.  Parents are often one of those individuals.  Even if you are a parent who has children in the house, there are a still a number of ways that you can be spontaneous, in terms of intimacy with you partner.  Did you just put your children down for bed?  Jump on your partner, literally, as soon as your kids leave the room.  Most parents want to sit down and relax after their kids have gone to bed, but show your partner that you have other things on your mind.</p>
<p>Having sex somewhere other than the bed or the bedroom is another way to be spontaneous with your partner.  If you are a parent who has kids in the house, just be careful.  Don?t have sex outside of the bedroom when they may be awake at night and don?t be too loud or you may have an uncomfortable situation on yours hands.</p>
<p>As for where you can have sex outside of the bedroom, use your creativity.  Where do you want to have sex?  What locations would allow you to try new positions that just can?t be done in a bed?  In addition to being intimate in places like on the couch, in a closet, in the bathroom, or on the kitchen table, consider going outside of the home as well, like to a hotel.</p>
<p>Speaking of getting intimate outside of the home, surprise your partner.  You can do this by booking a night at a hotel in town.  Make sure you choose one that has romantic rooms or an onsite hot tub or swimming pool.  If you are a parent, arrange childcare for your children first, like by calling on a trusted friend or family member.  Don?t tell your partner about your plans until you are ready to leave, as being spontaneous involves surprising them.</p>
<p>As you can see, there are a number of different ways that you can use spontaneity as a way to improve your relationship, both inside and outside of the bedroom.  What are you waiting for?  Get started today?  Your partner may appreciate your quick thinking.</p>
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		<title>How to Talk to Your Wife About Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2011 23:12:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to Talk to Your Wife About Sex

Are you married?  If you are, there are likely a lot of topics that you and your wife discuss throughout the day.  Common conversation topics include work, friends, family, and bills.  One topic that many couples]]></description>
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<p>Are you married?  If you are, there are likely a lot of topics that you and your wife discuss throughout the day.  Common conversation topics include work, friends, family, and bills.  One topic that many couples do not always discuss, even though they should, is that of sex.  Are you interested in improving your sex life?  If you are, you may need to talk to your wife, but should you?</p>
<p>Yes. You should.  It is important to talk to your wife.  An open line of communication is important to have a happy and healthy relationship in general.  Poor communication may have a negative impact on your entire relationship, not just your sex life.  Husbands who do not properly communicate with their wives often end up putting their relationships in harms way.  Do not let this happen to you and your marriage.</p>
<p>If you do decide to talk to your wife about sex, namely improving your intimacy, it is important to proceed with caution.  You do not want to criticize your wife or make her feel inadequate.  Are you not having your desires filled?  If so, don?t outright tell your wife that.  Doing so may cause even more problems to arise.  You do want to get the best level of intimacy possible, but you also don?t want to hurt your wife?s feelings in the process.  For that reason, you may want to try a different approach. Consider suggesting new things in the bedroom, such as a new position or a weekend away.</p>
<p>When talking to your wife about sex, it is also important not to push.  If you want to see an improvement in your sex, state so and give a few suggestions.  However, do not keep on brining the topic back up.  Give your wife a few days or even a few weeks to make adjustments in the bedroom.  This time is needed because your wife may be hurt when she learns that you aren?t pleased by her sexually.  It is natural for her to take time to think about the situation before taking action, which may involve implementing a few of your suggestions.</p>
<p>Next, it is important to listen to what your wife has to say.  Unfortunately, many men make mistake of believing that their wives just aren?t interested in being intimate anymore.  Although this can be true in some cases, it likely isn?t the case with your wife.  Your wife may experience other problems.  For example, many women are nervous and fearful of aging.  This may result in them wanting to showcase their body less.  A deceased sex drive may also be caused by something out of your wife?s control, such as a medical condition or a medication side effect.  That is why it is not only important to talk to your wife, but also listen to what she has to say.</p>
<p>If you still do not know how to start a conservation about sex and intimacy with your wife, there is another approach that you can take.  You can consider giving her a gift.  There are a number of great gifts available that can not only be useful in the bedroom, but gifts that can help to get a conversation started.  A book on new sexual positions, a new sexy outfit, or massage oils are all items that you may want to examine.  A gift not only provides you with an opportunity to start a conversation, but it is also a nice gesture.  Depending on what you decide to purchase, you may find it easier to shop online.  Many stores are discrete with the packages they send out; therefore, you should be able to keep your wife?s gift a surprise even if she is the one to pickup the mail.</p>
<p>In short, talking to your wife about sex may be something that you want to avoid, but you shouldn?t.  An open line of communication is vital to a happy and healthy relationship.</p>
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		<title>How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2011 11:27:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex

Are you married?  If so, there is a lot that you and your wife probably discuss throughout the day.  Your conversation topics may cover work, family, and the bills.  What about sex?  Do you and your husband ta]]></description>
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<p>Are you married?  If so, there is a lot that you and your wife probably discuss throughout the day.  Your conversation topics may cover work, family, and the bills.  What about sex?  Do you and your husband talk about sex?  If not, it may be something that you need to discuss with him.  One of the biggest signs that a conversation is needed is if you are currently unhappy in the bedroom.  As much as you may want to talk to your husband about making improvements in the bedroom, you may be curious as to whether or not it is really a good idea.</p>
<p>So, is it a good idea to talk to your husband about sex?  Yes, it is and it is something that you two should discuss.  In fact, an open line of communication is important for all relationships to succeed.  Poor communication is often the downfall of many marriages.  A lack of communication or poor communication may have a negative effect on your whole relationship, not just your sex life.  As a wife, it is your responsibility to talk to your husband and to keep an open line of communication.  If you don?t, you may end up putting your happiness and your marriage on the line.  Do not let this happen to you.</p>
<p>As for the talk itself, it is important that you proceed with caution.  Do not criticize your husband or make them feel inadequate.  If there is one thing that men take pride in, it is their ability to have sex and please their partners.  Unfortunately, that pleasure may not be enough for you.  Yes, you want to bring this to the attention of your husband, but do so gently.  Outright telling your husband that he isn?t fulfilling your needs is likely to create even more problems in your relationship.  Instead, gently approach the subject. You may want to start by casually making a suggestion, such as a new position.</p>
<p>Next, it is important to listen to what your husband has to say.  This is important as your communication should not be one sided.  When talking to your husband about intimacy say what you have to say, but then let them speak his mind.</p>
<p>Why it is so important to listen to what your husband has to say concerning intimacy?  For starters, as previously stated, a happy and healthy relationship must involve communication from other parties, not just one sided conversations.  It is also important to note that their may be a good reason why your husband may not be performing up to your standards in the bedroom.  Are they experiencing uncertainty due to an increase in age, a weight gain, or another change in physical appearance?  What about medical problems?  Did you know that some medical conditions, such as depression, and some medicines can lead to a decrease in the want or need for intimacy?</p>
<p>Even with the above mentioned tips, you may still be unsure as to how you should talk to your husband about sex.  You may be feeling this way if you are worried about the consequences or hurting his feelings.  This is completely natural, but do know that you do have another option. Consider giving a gift or performing a gesture that may lead to the topic of intimacy being discussed.  Whether you plan a spontaneous romantic dinner, purchase a romantic or pornographic movie, or buy something sexy for your husband to wear, a gift may help to get a new conversation started.</p>
<p>As previously stated, talking to your husband about sex and intimacy may be hard for you.  With that said, it is important that you do have the talk.  Not only is an open line of communication important for intimacy, but it is also important for a healthy relationship in general.  As reminder, don?t just talk to your husband about sex, but be sure to listen to what he has to say as well.</p>
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		<title>How to Approach the Subject of Experimenting in the Bedroom</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Mar 2011 19:36:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[How to Approach the Subject of Experimenting in the Bedroom

Are you bored with your sex life?  If you are, you may want to spice things up a bit in the bedroom.  A great way to do so is to try new thing.  Experimenting in the bedroom often brings]]></description>
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<p>Are you bored with your sex life?  If you are, you may want to spice things up a bit in the bedroom.  A great way to do so is to try new thing.  Experimenting in the bedroom often brings new life to a relationship.  It can also allow couples to reach new levels of pleasure.</p>
<p>When it comes to experimenting, many individuals and their minds automatically wander.  It is important to remember that bedroom experimenting comes in a number of different formats.  It doesn?t have to involve something that would be embarrassing if it leaked out and it doesn?t have to involve bringing in a third person.  Experimenting in the bedroom can honestly mean something as simple as trying a new position.</p>
<p>Although many individuals, like you, want to experiment in the bedroom, many are afraid to approach their partner about doing so.  Why?  Because there is a certain level of fear associated with doing so.  What if your partner thinks that they don?t please or satisfy you enough in the bedroom? What if your partner thinks that the sex is just fine the way it is?  What if your sex partner thinks that you have a sick mind?  These are all concerns that you may have, but you shouldn?t let that stop you.</p>
<p>If you do decide to approach the subject of experimenting in the bedroom with your partner, you will want to be gentle with your approach.  Your partner may automatically believe that he or she isn?t pleasing enough for you.  Although this may not be what you mean, it is still a likely and natural assumption.  If your partner asks you, be sure to calm their fears.  Let them know that you think that experimenting in the bedroom could not only increase your pleasure and satisfaction, but theirs as well.  This approach tends to work nicely.</p>
<p>As it was previously stated, when many individuals hear the phrase ?experimenting in the bedroom,? their minds often wanders to embarrassing and sometimes humiliating experiences.  If you are just looking to try a new sex position, introduce pleasure enchasing sex toys, or romantic movies, be sure to let your partner know immediately.  Do not give him or her the opportunity to even think that you mean something different.  Doing so can change the way that your partner looks at you, both inside and outside of the bedroom.</p>
<p>In addition to letting your partner know what changes you would like to make in the bedroom, give them the opportunity to express their wants, needs, and desires.  This is a simple, yet important step to take.  First, it is important to remember that intimacy should involve two people receiving maximum pleasure, not just one.  Next, it will help bring reassurance to your partner that you are not just looking to increase your pleasure.  Asking what your partner?s wants and needs are in the bedroom will go to show that you want to improve the overall experience, not just yours.</p>
<p>Despite the fact that experimenting in the bedroom may sometimes be a difficult subject to approach, it is one that you will want to talk about.  A healthy sex life is an important component of any relationship and marriage.  By approaching the subject carefully, you and your partner can soon be having wild, yet pleasurable sex in no time at all.</p>
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		<title>How Text Messaging Can Help to Improve Your Sex Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Mar 2011 19:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How Text Messaging Can Help to Improve Your Sex Life

Are you looking for an easy, yet unique way to improve your sex life or even just your relationship in general?  If you are, do you and your partner own and use cell phones?  If so, improving yo]]></description>
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<p>Are you looking for an easy, yet unique way to improve your sex life or even just your relationship in general?  If you are, do you and your partner own and use cell phones?  If so, improving your relationship through the use of text messages is a fun and creative, yet unique approach to take.  If you haven?t already tired this approach, you should.</p>
<p>As nice as it is to hear that text messaging can help to improve your communication or your sex life, you may be looking for more information.  First, you may be wondering if it is really possible to do.  Can a simple text message ignite passion in your relationship?  Yes, it can.  In fact, you may be surprised just how much passion can be ignited.  Please continue reading on for more information on just how it can and should be done.</p>
<p>For starters, do you have any sexual fantasies or desires that you would like to see transformed into reality?  Are you bored with your current level of intimacy and would like to make changes?  If so, you need to speak with your partner.  Unfortunately, this is often a lot easier said than done for some men and women.  You should have no problem talking to your partner about intimacy, but the subject may be one that makes you feel uncomfortable.  If that is the case, text messaging may be an easy approach to take. The ability to mask yourself behind a cell phone may provide you with a certain level of comfort and peace of mind.</p>
<p>In addition to using text messages as a way to improve your communication and your sex life, you can and should use it as a form of foreplay.  Unfortunately, many individuals make the mistake of assuming that foreplay can only happen in the bedroom, but it doesn?t have to be that way.  Is your partner on their way home from work?  Are you in the mood for intimacy?  If you are, send them a few sexy, seductive, and suggestive text messages. In a few creative words, let them know that you are at home waiting for them and ready for an adventure.</p>
<p>As romantic and as adventurous as using a cell phone to add new life to your intimacy can be, it is also important to proceed with caution.  There are a few important dos and don?t that you first need to know.  Do not send sexy or seductive text messages to a family cell phone.  A family cell phone can be defined as one that all members of the family uses, like one that your son or daughter may borrow.  These types of text messages are and should be private.  Also, avoid sending text messages to work issued cell phones.  Often times, text messages are not allow, but they may also be viewed by others.</p>
<p>In addition to spicing up your current relationship or marriage, text messages can also be used as a way to court new partners.  Did you just recently get the phone number of a nice and attractive man or woman at a bar or party?  If you did, send them a flirty text message.  For many, sending a text message is a lot easier than placing an actual phone call.  When first making contact, be sure to use caution and your best judgment.  Do not go overboard or be too sexy or seductive.  There is a better time and place for these types of messages.  Speaking of that time and place, wait until after you have received a response back or until after your first real date.</p>
<p>As a recap, text messaging is a unique, fun, and creative way to improve your sex life.  If you and your partner own cell phones, start using them today.  You may be more than pleased with the results.  As a reminder, text messages can also be used to get the communication started in a new relationship.</p>
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