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Would you give a girl a boy’s name?

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10:04 pm
November 30, 2008


Kay

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Or vice versa even. What I mean there is a name that's traditionally male rather than female, although there's a feminine variation.


I knew a boy called Lindsey who was teased about his name, because where I come from, Lindsay (note the spelling difference with the female version of it) or Lynsay is considered more a girl's name than a boy's.I don't know how many times I heard him tell people it was Lindsey with an “e”. Apparently Scotland and Australia are the only countries where it's commonly recognised as a boy's name.


I don't think I would - life's hard enough for kids without opening them up to teasing through something they can't do anything about.  I still think it should be up to the individual parents to choose what they like. Maybe in future the lines will blur more anyway to where the roots of a name in whatever gender won't be of any great significance. One thing's for sure, I never forgot him or his name so if nothing else it was memorable. :)

2:08 am
December 1, 2008


Nazreen

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Me neither. I don't think that it's good to give our children names of the opposite sex. They say that we start planning for our kids futures even before they are born so I think that giving them proper names should also be included in that plan.


We shouldn't give in to impulses by giving our children names of the opposite sex. I mean, we might idolize Ricky Martin but naming our daughter Ricky would be a terrible idea. I also wouldn't want my children to be teased by his/her peers because of this folly.

10:58 am
December 1, 2008


Diane

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I did give my girl a boy's name … Courtney.  In the US it tends to be more traditionally used for girls, but we do run into many male Courtneys through soccer (football).

I think many names can be unisex and there are boy names I think would be beautiful as a girl's name … like the name Evan!  I would love to have one more girl so I could name her that.

We actually have a close friend that named her daughter Rikki and I have never heard anyone give her a hard time about it.  I wonder if it's just because here people are so used to hearing unisex names??

I think it's important to think out your child's name and the impact it may have on them, but I also think we shouldn't OVER think it.  Some kids are mean spirited and will find an issue with ANY name.  My mom had a student with a name I find appalling … her first name was Ophelia, which alone, I think is beautiful, but her family name was Bredst (sounds like breast) and together the names are very sad to grow up with.

10:18 am
December 2, 2008


Kay

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You might be onto something there Diane about unisex names being more common there. Courtney is a perfect example.  I've never heard of that being used as a boy's name till now. It's a beautiful name. Robyn's probably my favorite unisex one and one I don't particularly associate with either gender more than the other.


Poor Ophelia! I don't know how her parents couldn't have envisaged that happening. That was one thing I was paranoid about when I was having my son, that somehow his name could be twisted if I chose the wrong thing so I went for a plain one, Ross. It's a good Scots name. :)

10:37 am
December 2, 2008


Diane

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California

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LOVE the name Ross!

Courtney is one of those names that originated as a boy name - in England maybe? - but has been taken over as a girls name here.  Like the name Carol.  It originated as a boy's name … which I never would have known if I hadn't grown up with a boy whose middle name was Carol - as was his father's and his grandfather's.

I don't know if you listen to stand up comedy much, but Lewis Black does a skit on baby names.  He talks about a few that are spelled out one way, but pronounced another … I don't know that they should be mentioned here (lol)  but he says that one mom named her child Abcde … and he said that it was the ONLY one that he could understand … because the mother had been in labor for 100 hours!!  After all that, you should have the right to name your child anything you want Wink


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