Most of us experience problematic patterns of emotion in our marriage. Its a constant struggle!!

Many a times one needs conseling or therapy to over come the obstacles in their marriage so why not on this forum!!

Share your problems on this one and get a solution to all!!!

Yeah, it is very difficult to initiate it.( personal experience speaking here)

But it does work.

Save your marriage irrespective of involving an outsider.

Unfortunately it does help!

My DH is under the opinion that counselling should not be required, as if you can't get along, than the relationship is doomed. I mean, I think that counselling is great to establish roads of communication, and to learn techniques to help develop the relationship. Counselling doesn't always have to be a bad thing!

I haven't had to go down that road.. yet. but I reckon I'd try anything to keep my relationship on track.  However, my friend tried doing this once, after things had gone from bad to worse, and I was really surprised to find that although the man was usually very open etc.. he was reluctant to go to Relate because he didn't want to talk about his feelings in front of a stranger.  I thought this was really weird.  But he was at fault so maybe he was just feeling guilty and didn't want to keep going over the same old ground.  His wife was not hapy though.