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Older Mums, Older Values???

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12:39 pm
October 16, 2008


loolarbelle

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I got to wondering whether the children raised now by older parents might be raised with a different set of values (some might say old fashioned) than the children of their younger counterparts????  I'm not saying this is a good or bad thing.. Just wondering how this may affect the dynamics of the children involved.  Or, do you think that older parents might make even more of an effort to stay 'up with the times' to  counteract this??

5:53 pm
October 18, 2008


DeniseT

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I think it's a good thing.  I see so many kids getting away with murder these days.. sure tenagers have attitude.. but it is the parents ob to guide them through life and grow past that stage of thinking that everything revolves around them.

On the other hand I have definitely seen a few older parents (who have had to use IVF etc. especially) dote on their kids to a point where the kids has no boundaries. 

Maybe with older parents, its more liekly to be polarized.  I know I'm more strict with my kids than a lot of younger moms.

thanks for posting.. it got me thinking!!

12:32 am
November 11, 2008


Kay

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Good question! I agree with Denise. Perhaps it has to do with life experience as well. You don't take the same nonsense at forty five that you would have twenty years earlier.

I worry sometimes about how lax a lot of parents are these days in my eyes but I'm sure each generation brings something not just of themselves to the equation but how they were raised. There will be good and bad parents within whatever group you look at. :)


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